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Reflection, Purification, and Sanctification – Parshas Acharei Mos / Kedoshim 5769

Posted by Rabbi Dovid Boruch Kopel
May 1, 2009 - ח' אייר ה' תשס"ט
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The name of an object or person describes its essence, and the names of the paryshiyos are no exclusion to this idea. Consequently, parshas Acharei-Mos is more than the beginning of the parshah, it is the nature of the parshah as well. The parshah begins with Hashem telling Moshe to warn his brother Aharon that he should not repeat the ways of his children who perished. Rashi explains that Rebbi Eliezar Ben Azariyah would compare this to a sick person who goes to a doctor. The doctor tells him that he should not eat cold food and that he should not lay in the mildew. Afterwards, another person comes to the doctor and the doctor says that he should not eat cold food and lay in the mildew so you do not die like the first person.  This additional explanation will inspire the second man more than the first person. Thus, Rashi concludes that this is why the Torah tells this to Aharon HaCohen; to teach him in a way that he will be compelled to listen. Let us take a step back for a moment and look back at Parshas Shemini where this incident occurred.

In Parshas Shemini, the karbanos are brought on the eighth day of of the inauguration of the recently erected Mishkan. The Torah then relates that two of the sons of Aharon HaCohen, Nuduv and Avihu brought their own ketores offering. They decided to do this independently  without any commandment to do so.  As a result, they were punished rather than praised for their actions. Chazal tell us Nuduv and Avihu sinned when they drank wine prior to entering the Beis HaMikdash. A question appears; why would the Torah punished the children of Aharon HaCohen when the prohibition of drinking wine in the Beis HaMikdash is written following their death? One possible explanation is that they were punshied for not being careful in something that they knew was wrong. You could ask, how could they have been careful…they didn’t know it was prohibited! The answer is that they should have known that it is inappropriate go into a place of kedushah in a state that is impure. Wine is something associated with temptation, and is often used improperly. For example, a nazir does not drink wine when he saw what happened to a sotah as a result of intoxication.  As with all aspects of our lives, it is our duty to take mundane items, like wine, and sanctify them through Torah and mitzvos.   Even within the 613 mitzvos the Torah still leaves room to take your life a step further.  And that step is  kedushah.

Although wine led Nuduv and Avihu to their sin, their actual sin was bringing a ketores without being commanded to do so. While they may have had great intentions of doing Hashem’s will, in reality they acted against it. What was so wrong about bringing something that wasn’t commanded? The language that the Torah used to describe their offering was “aish zaruh” or foreign fire. Their act was considered foreign  because it was not commanded. There is a great difference between acting in a way that is l’fnim mishuris hadin, or beyond the letter of the law. The Torah is complete and perfect in every way, therefore when one tries to add to it they will inevitably retract from it. In our Avodas Hashem, we must be careful to follow the actual obligations of the Torah and to not create our own interpretations.

Why must the great Kohen Gadol Aharon HaCohen need to have his own children die in order to teach him to obey the specific prohibition of entering the Kodesh Kadushim during the year!? We are talking about the brother of Moshe Rabbeinu, the greatest man to ever live.  Now we may begin to understand the question we initially raised, why must Aharon HaCohen be taught such a serious lesson, wouldn’t telling him be enough?

Parshas  Acharei Mos, literally “After Death”, refers to the children of Aharon HaCohen, and perhaps contains a deeper meaning.  When people reach the end of their life, they engage in the deepest personal reflection imaginable.  Their life flashes before their eyes, and they examine their lives, their experiences, their relationships.  Indeed, our own mortality drives us to examine ourselves on a regular basis, lest we reach the end of days with no concept of who we are or what our purpose is.  It is this idea, the idea of deep reflection, that we learn from Parshas Acharei Mos. Aharon learned through the death of his beloved, holy children, the importance of learning from, and moving on from experiences.  We can be told the most important lessons from the most important people, but nothing teaches like Experiences.   And what better day, the day designated by G-d himself, to reflect, learn, and move on from our experiences but Yom Hakippurim.  That is why we learn Acharei Mos for Yom Hakippurim.  That is why Aharon HaCohen, and Klal Yisroel, needed this lesson.

That is truly the pasuk in the other parshah of this week, Parshas Kedoshim. The pasuk tells us “קדשים תהיו.” While there is a discussion as to what the specific mitzvah is, the basic idea is to make one’s self holy. A famous explanation of קדשים תהיו is that one should  מקדש עצמו במותר לך meaning to sanctify ones-self by that which is permitted to him. As was touched upon earlier this should never lead to one’s own interpretations of the Torah, only expressing great care in their observance to mitzvos. This idea of becoming kadosh is a deeply rooted desire of Klal Yisroel and it must be expressed through mitzvos. Otherwise it will be used improperly as we saw by the sons of Aharon HaCohen. These parshiyos are usually found during the time of Sefiras HaOmer, between Pesach and Shavuos. This is a time where we grow in preparation for the acceptance of the Torah once again. This is the time where we also observe mourning for the students of the great Rebbi Akiva whom were said to not have shown proper respect to one another. The greatest thing that we can do in this time in preparation for the acceptance of the Torah, as we grow from being like an animal (as the offering on Pesach is from food of the animals) to being like a Man (as the offering on Shavuos is from the food of Man) we should take extra measures to treat our fellow brethren with proper respect. The greatest chumros should be found in our Ben Adom L’chavayro as that is where we tend to lack. We think that the acceptance of Torah is just through our learning and davenning, it is also through the way we treat others. We should use this time to purify and sanctify ourselves before Yom HaKippurim where we come before Hashem. We should all be zocheh to grow in all ways through this period of time in our lives.

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As Yourself – Parshas Kedoshim 5769

Posted by Rabbi Yosef Tropper
April 30, 2009 - ז' אייר ה' תשס"ט
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 ואהבת לרעך כמוך  (יט:יח).

“You shall love your friend as yourself” (19:18)                     

Rebbe Akiva says that an important principle of the Torah is that one should love his friend as he does himself. Let us delve into this to understand what this great Mitzvah entails.

The Gemara in Bava Metziya (62a) tells us of a frightening scenario. Two people are traveling in a desolate desert and they run out of water. One of them has one small portion of water left, however, it is not sufficient for both of them. There is only enough for one person to drink to enable him to reach the closest city safely. If they split it, they will both die. What should he do? One opinion states that the owner of the water should split it between the two of them rather than watch his friend die on his account (even though this action dictates that both of them will not make it)! Another opinion argues and says that you must NOT share it, rather you must keep it all for yourself, as the Torah dictates that “חייך קודמים, your own safety takes precedence!” One of these two opinions is that of our Rebbe Akiva, which one do you think he opted for?

Astonishingly, he is the latter, dictating that one must care for himself first! How does this coincide with his view on the importance of loving your friend as yourself!?

The explanation is as follows. The two statements of Rebbe Akiva are far from contradictory; in fact they both develop upon one another! Allow me to explain.

How often do we meet someone who loves to care and do kindness for others. He will do anything to assist someone in need. Yet when it comes to his own live he is not happy or fulfilled and is rather miserable! Why does this happen and how could it be avoided?

The answer is that he knows how to properly treat everyone, well almost everyone, except for one person…. himself! The foundation for proper love for your friend is proper treatment of yourself. The standard for how to love your friend is כמוך, like yourself! Thus, the prerequisite for loving your friend is treating yourself right first.

Hashem teaches man that: your life is most important, you must fend for your own self first. After you have taken care of yourself, after you have filled yourself up with chessed from the inside, then this could spill forth, overflowing onto everyone else as well. If this is not done, then one will quickly find himself used and spent with nothing else left to give to others as he has burned out from self neglect.

Indeed, Rebbe Akiva entrusts us with the ever important directive of taking care of our fellow people. However, he teaches us that the proper way to do this is by beginning with care of our own selves first. This way, our kindness will spill forth and be shared healthily with the maximum benefactors receiving it! May we all succeed in fulfilling this noble ideal!

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